40 years and counting…

Good morning all. As I sit here writing this, I can’t help but to watch the clock, waiting for midnight, for October 2nd to roll over into October 3rd. Why? No, not for my break time (I work nights). The reason is simple:

On October 3rd, I will forever leave my 30’s behind. Yep, that’s right, I will join the group of 40 year olds.

By the time you read this, you will no longer be reading a blog post written by a 39 year old woman but from a 40 year old woman.

Big difference? Maybe….

There are those familiar sayings about a person turning forty. You know the ones:

  • Over the hill
  • Your life is half over
  • One foot in the grave
  • It’s all downhill from here

They go on and on. Now I’m not going to lie. Turning 40 makes me feel a tad bit depressed. I mean, I have been alive and on this Earth for 40 years and I don’t know, I just thought I would have done more with my time.

BUT….

I refuse to dig myself into a pit of despair about all of the things I have not done or the places I’ve never been. Instead, I want to think about everything I have experienced in my last 40 years.

1. I didn’t finish high school

BUT…

I got my G.E.D.

2. I worked on a stinky chicken farm

BUT…

I met my best friend in the whole world

3. Unfortunately I had to quit college

BUT…

I have a very good paying job

WITH…

A great partner

4. I got married…and divorced

BUT…

I met and married my soul mate

5. I didn’t have the twins I always wanted

BUT…

I did have two beautiful children

AND…

became a step mom to another beautiful child

6. I’m not living in some million dollar mansion

BUT…

I did purchase an even better, cozy, loving home with my wonderful husband

7. I didn’t get on become a NY Times Bestsellers List or sign a movie deal based on my books (YET…)

BUT…

I did become a published author!

P.S. The 3rd full length book in The Perfect Order series is in the early stages…

So, to sum it all up:

I may not have accomplished everything I wanted to in the way I wanted to…

And I may not have “The Perfect Life”…

But what I have accomplished is amazing to me

And what I do have, the LIFE I have, is perfect for me.

Thanks for stopping by my blog today. Enjoy!

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Thought provoking movie

Hi all. I just wanted to share a movie with you. If you haven’t already seen it, I strongly encourage you to do so. It’s not a great movie in my opinion but a good one. One that keeps you thinking about it days after you’ve watched it. Maybe in a way, that makes it a great movie…..

Anyway, the movie I’m talking about is Me Before You.

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This movie star Emilia Clarke

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And Sam Claflin

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You may know Emilia Clarke from Game of Thrones and Sam Claflin has been seen in Hunger Games and Pirates of the Caribbean: Dead Man’s Chest.

Both are extremely talented and they play their parts in this movie well. Ordinary girl meets ordinary guy.

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But Louisa Clark and Will Traynor prove to be anything but ordinary in this movie about life, love, and loss.

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Here, let me give you a quick run down of the movie:

Louisa Clark is an ordinary girl living an exceedingly ordinary life—steady boyfriend, close family—who has barely been farther afield than her tiny village. She takes a badly needed job working for ex-Master of the Universe Will Traynor, who is wheelchair-bound after an accident. Will has always lived a huge life—big deals, extreme sports, worldwide travel—and he is not interested in exploring a new one.

Will is acerbic, moody, bossy—but Lou refuses to treat him with kid gloves, and soon his happiness means more to her than she expected. When she learns that Will has shocking plans of his own, Lou sets out to show him that life is still worth living.

Me Before You brings to life two people who couldn’t have less in common—a heartbreakingly romantic novel that asks, What do you do when making the person you love happy also means breaking your heart?

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This movie will make you feel a variety of emotions. Sadness, anger, love, and hope. And in the end, it will make you ask the question:

What would I do if I were in that situation?

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You should definitely watch this movie. It may be one of your favorites but it may not be. But either way, it is one that will stay with you long after the movie credits roll….Enjoy!

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HAPPY V-DAY!!!

Good morning everyone. Today is Valentine’s Day!

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The OFFICIAL Day of love.

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First, I want to say: Why only show love ONE day a year? It SHOULD be everyday.  Come on people, life is too short to tell those you love how you feel.  Tell them NOW!!

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There, now that I got that out of my system, I will move on. 😌

I know a lot of people go all out all out buying gifts

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For women, gifts tend to be:

FLOWERS

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CHOCOLATE

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JEWELRY

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OR A ROMANTIC DINNER

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For men, the gifts usually include things like:

TIES

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WATCHES

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OR SPORTS TICKETS

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But whether the gifts are super expensive

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Or maybe not so expensive

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They are given with love.

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So for this Valentine’s Day, spend it with the ones you love

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and take a moment and give them a hug

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Because after all, it’s Valentine’s Day

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HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!! Enjoy!!

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